Wednesday 15 October 2014

45 Life Lessons Written by a "90-Year-Old Woman"


People often tell Regina Brett how great she looks for her age. Turns out, she is actually 54 years old — not 90. She wrote down these life lessons the night before her 45th birthday after being diagnosed with breast cancer. Over that past decade, these lessons have gone viral on the Internet amid claims that she is 90 years old. Luckily, she finds humor in this misrepresentation, knowing how many lives she has touched.
Whatever her age might be, these universal lessons are relatable to anyone who needs a little reminder of what's important in life.

1.    Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2.    When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3.    Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4.    Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
5.    Pay off your credit cards every month.
6.    You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7.    Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8.    Save for retirement, starting with your first paycheck.
9.    When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
10. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
11. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
12. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
13. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
14. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.
15. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.
16. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.
17. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
18. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
19. Burn the candles; use the nice sheets; wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
20. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
21. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
22. The most important sex organ is the brain.
23. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
24. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?"
25. Forgive everyone everything.
26. What other people think of you is none of your business.
27. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
28. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
29. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
30. Believe in miracles.
31. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
32. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.
33. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.
34. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
35. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.
36. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
37. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
40. The best is yet to come.
41. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up, and show up.
42. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
43. If you don't ask, you don't get.
44. Yield.
45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.


Tuesday 14 October 2014

WHEN A LIZARD CAN, WHY CAN'T WE?


This is a true story that happened in Japan. In order to renovate the house, someone in Japan breaks open the wall.
Japanese houses normally have a hollow space between the wooden walls.
When tearing down the walls, he found that there was a lizard stuck there because a nail from outside hammered into one of its feet. He sees this, feels pity, and at the same time curious, as when he checked the nail, it was nailed 10 years ago when the house was first built.
What happened?
The lizard has survived in such position for 10 years!!!!!!!!!!
In a dark wall partition for 10 years without moving, it is impossible and mind-boggling. Then he wondered how this lizard survived for 10 years!!! Without moving a single step - since its foot was nailed!
So he stopped his work and observed the lizard, what it has been doing, and what and how it has been eating.
Later, not knowing from where it came appears another lizard, with food in its mouth.
Ah! He was stunned and touched deeply.
For the lizard, that was stuck by nail, another lizard has been feeding it for the past 10 years...
Imagine? it has been doing that untiringly for 10 long years, without giving up hope on its partner.
Think, will you do that to your partner?
Think that will you do it to your Mom, Who brought you after a big struggle of nine long months?
Or at least to your Dad, Friends, Co-workers, brothers and Sisters?
Imagine what a small creature can do that a creature blessed with a brilliant mind can't.
As information and communication technology advances, our access to information becomes faster and faster.
But the Distance between human beings . . . is it getting closer as well?
Please never abandon your loved ones.
Never Say You Are Busy When They Really Need You ...
You May Have The Entire World At Your Feet.....
But You Might Be The Only World To Them....
A Moment of negligence might break the very heart which loves you thru all odds..
Before you say something just remember…It takes a moment to Break but an entire life to make....
To Live Use Heart and to Survive use Brains.
Then Life would be a paradise Unfurling only Love Joy and Happiness....
"Love is the ocean which accepts all manner of the rivers without questioning their origin."
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Its better to lose your ego to the one you love
Than to loose the one you love ... Because of ego.
A relationship doesn't shine by just shaking hands in good times.
But it blossoms by holding firmly in critical situations.

Friday 10 October 2014

Lets learn from Last Words, death bed statements

Last Words, death bed statements . . .
Thomas Jefferson--still survives...
 John Adams, US President, d. July 4, 1826
(Actually, Jefferson had died earlier that same day.)
This is the last of earth! I am content.
 John Quincy Adams, US President, d. February 21, 1848
See in what peace a Christian can die.
 Joseph Addison, writer, d. June 17, 1719
Is it not meningitis?
 Louisa M. Alcott, writer, d. 1888
Waiting are they? Waiting are they? Well--let 'em wait.
In response to an attending doctor who attempted to comfort him by saying, "General, I fear the angels are waiting for you."
 Ethan Allen, American Revolutionary general, d. 1789
Am I dying or is this my birthday?
When she woke briefly during her last illness and found all her family around her bedside.

 Lady Nancy Astor, d. 1964
Nothing, but death.
When asked by her sister, Cassandra, if there was anything she wanted.

 Jane Austen, writer, d. July 18, 1817
Codeine . . . bourbon.
 Tallulah Bankhead, actress, d. December 12, 1968
How were the receipts today at Madison Square Garden?
 P. T. Barnum, entrepreneur, d. 1891
I can't sleep.
 James M. Barrie, author, d. 1937
Is everybody happy? I want everybody to be happy. I know I'm happy.
 Ethel Barrymore, actress, d. June 18, 1959
Die? I should say not, dear fellow. No Barrymore would allow such a conventional thing to happen to him.
 John Barrymore, actor, d. May 29, 1942
I am ready to die for my Lord, that in my blood the Church may obtain liberty and peace.
 Thomas à Becket, Archbishop of Canterbury, d.1170
Now comes the mystery.
 Henry Ward Beecher, evangelist, d. March 8, 1887
In her new book The Most Famous Man in America, author Debby Applegate writes on page 466 that Beecher's last words in fact were, "You were saying that I could not recover." Ms. Applegate has not been able to confirm the traditional version of Beecher's last words.
Friends applaud, the comedy is finished.
 Ludwig van Beethoven, composer, d. March 26, 1827
I should never have switched from Scotch to Martinis.
 Humphrey Bogart, actor, d. January 14, 1957
Josephine...
 Napoleon Bonaparte, French Emperor, May 5, 1821
I am about to -- or I am going to -- die: either expression is correct.
 Dominique Bouhours, French grammarian, d. 1702
Ah, that tastes nice. Thank you.
 Johannes Brahms, composer, d. April 3, 1897
Oh, I am not going to die, am I? He will not separate us, we have been so happy.
Spoken to her husband of 9 months, Rev. Arthur Nicholls.

 Charlotte Bronte, writer, d. March 31, 1855
Beautiful.
In reply to her husband who had asked how she felt.

 Elizabeth Barrett Browning, writer, d. June 28, 1861
Now I shall go to sleep. Goodnight.
 Lord George Byron, writer, d. 1824
Et tu, Brute?
Assassinated.

 Gaius Julius Caesar, Roman Emperor, d. 44 BC
I am still alive!
Stabbed to death by his own guards - (as reported by Roman historian Tacitus)

 Gaius Caligula, Roman Emperor, d.41 AD
Don't let poor Nelly (his mistress, Nell Gwynne) starve.
 Charles II, King of England and Scotland, d. 1685
Ay Jesus.
 Charles V, King of France, d. 1380
I am dying. I haven't drunk champagne for a long time.
 Anton Pavlovich Chekhov, writer, d. July 1, 1904
The earth is suffocating . . . Swear to make them cut me open, so that I won't be buried alive.
Dying of tuberculosis.
 Frederic Chopin, composer, d. October 16, 1849
I'm bored with it all.
Before slipping into a coma. He died 9 days later.

 Winston Churchill, statesman, d. January 24, 1965
This time it will be a long one.
 Georges Clemenceau, French premier, d. 1929
I have tried so hard to do the right.
 Grover Cleveland, US President, d. 1908
That was the best ice-cream soda I ever tasted.
 Lou Costello, comedian, d. March 3, 1959
Goodnight my darlings, I'll see you tomorrow.
 Noel Coward, writer, d. 1973
Damn it . . . Don't you dare ask God to help me.
To her housekeeper, who had begun to pray aloud.

 Joan Crawford, actress, d. May 10, 1977
That was a great game of golf, fellers.
 Harry Lillis "Bing" Crosby, singer / actor, d. October 14, 1977
I am not the least afraid to die.
 Charles Darwin, d. April 19, 1882
My God. What's happened?
 Diana (Spencer), Princess of Wales, d. August 31, 1997
I must go in, the fog is rising.
 Emily Dickinson, poet, d. 1886
Do you hear the rain? Do you hear the rain?
Minutes before her plane crashed.

 Jessica Dubroff, seven-year-old pilot, d. 1996
Adieu, mes amis. Je vais la gloire.
(Farewell, my friends! I go to glory!)

 Isadora Duncan, dancer, d. 1927
Please know that I am quite aware of the hazards. Women must try to do things as men have tried. When they fail, their failure must be but a challenge to others.
Last letter to her husband before her last flight.
KHAQQ calling Itasca. We must be on you, but cannot see you. Gas is running low.
Last radio communiqué before her disappearance.

 Amelia Earhart, d. 1937
It is very beautiful over there.
 Thomas Alva Edison, inventor, d. October 18, 1931
No, I shall not give in. I shall go on. I shall work to the end.
 Edward VII, King of Britain, d. 1910
All my possessions for a moment of time.
 Elizabeth I, Queen of England, d. 1603
I've never felt better.
 Douglas Fairbanks, Sr., actor, d. December 12, 1939
I'd hate to die twice. It's so boring.
 Richard Feynman, physicist, d. 1988
I've had a hell of a lot of fun and I've enjoyed every minute of it.
 Errol Flynn, actor, d. October 14, 1959
A dying man can do nothing easy.
 Benjamin Franklin, statesman, d. April 17, 1790
Come my little one, and give me your hand.
Spoken to his daughter, Ottilie.
 Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, writer, d. March 22, 1832
I know you have come to kill me. Shoot coward, you are only going to kill a man.
Facing his assassin, Mario Teran, a Bolivian soldier.

 Ernesto "Che" Guevara, d. October 9, 1967
Yes, it's tough, but not as tough as doing comedy.
When asked if he thought dying was tough.

 Edmund Gwenn, actor, d. September 6, 1959
God will pardon me, that's his line of work.
 Heinrich Heine, poet, d. February 15, 1856
Turn up the lights, I don't want to go home in the dark.
 O. Henry (William Sidney Porter), writer, d. June 4, 1910
All is lost. Monks, monks, monks!
 Henry VIII, King of England, d. 1547
I am about to take my last voyage, a great leap in the dark.
 Thomas Hobbes, writer, d. 1679
I see black light.
 Victor Hugo, writer, d. May 22, 1885
Oh, do not cry - be good children and we will all meet in heaven.
 Andrew Jackson, US President, d. 1845
Let us cross over the river and sit in the shade of the trees.
Killed in error by his own troops at the battle of Chancellorsville during the US Civil War.

 General Thomas "Stonewall" Jackson, d. 1863
Is it the Fourth?
 Thomas Jefferson, US President, d. July 4, 1826
Father, into thy hands I commend my spirit.
From Luke 23:46
 Jesus Christ
Does nobody understand?
 James Joyce, writer, d. 1941
Why not? Yeah.
 Timothy Leary, d. May 31, 1996
Now I have finished with all earthly business, and high time too. Yes, yes, my dear child, now comes death.
 Franz Leher, composer, d. October 24, 1948
A King should die standing.
 Louis XVIII, King of France, d. 1824
Why do you weep. Did you think I was immortal?
 Louis XIV, King of France, d. 1715
I am a Queen, but I have not the power to move my arms.
 Louise, Queen of Prussia, d. 1820
Too late for fruit, too soon for flowers.
 Walter De La Mare, writer, d. 1956
Let's cool it brothers . . .
Spoken to his assassins, 3 men who shot him 16 times.

 Malcolm X, Black leader, d. 1966
Go on, get out - last words are for fools who haven't said enough.
To his housekeeper, who urged him to tell her his last words so she could write them down for posterity.

 Karl Marx, revolutionary, d. 1883
I forgive everybody. I pray that everybody may also forgive me, and my blood which is about to be shed will bring peace to Mexico. Long live Mexico! Long Live Independence!
 Maximilian, Emperor of Mexico, (Archduke Maximilian of Austria), d. June 11, 1867
Nothing matters. Nothing matters.
 Louis B. Mayer, film producer, d. October 29, 1957
It's all been very interesting.
 Lady Mary Wortley Montagu, writer, d. 1762
I knew it. I knew it. Born in a HOTEL ROOMDescription: http://cdncache-a.akamaihd.net/items/it/img/arrow-10x10.png - and God damn it - died in a hotel room.
 Eugene O'Neill, writer, d. November 27, 1953
Good-bye . . . why am I hemorrhaging?
 Boris Pasternak, writer, d. 1959
Get my swan costume ready.
 Anna Pavlova, ballerina, d. 1931
I am curious to see what happens in the next world to one who dies unshriven.
Giving his reasons for refusing to see a priest as he lay dying.

 Pietro Perugino, Italian painter, d. 1523
Lord help my poor soul.
 Edgar Allan Poe, writer, d. October 7, 1849
I love you Sarah. For all eternity, I love you.
Spoken to his wife.
 James K. Polk, US President, d. 1849
Here am I, dying of a hundred good symptoms.
 Alexander Pope, writer, d. May 30, 1744
I owe much; I have nothing; the rest I leave to the poor.
 François Rabelais, writer, d. 1553
I have a terrific headache.
He died of a cerebral hemorrhage.
 Franklin Delano Roosevelt, US President, d. 1945
Put out the light.
 Theodore Roosevelt, US President, d. 1919
They couldn't hit an elephant at this dist. . . .
Killed in battle during US Civil War.

 General John Sedgwick, Union Commander, d. 1864
Sister, you're trying to keep me alive as an old curiosity, but I'm done, I'm finished, I'm going to die.
Spoken to his nurse.
 George Bernard Shaw, playwright, d. November 2, 1950
I've had eighteen straight whiskies, I think that's the record . . .
 Dylan Thomas, poet, d. 1953
Moose . . . Indian . . .
 Henry David Thoreau, writer, d. May 6, 1862
God bless... God damn.
 James Thurber, humorist, d. 1961
I feel here that this time they have succeeded.
 Leon Trotsky, Russian revolutionary, d. 1940
Don't worry chief, it will be alright.
 Rudolph Valentino, actor, d. August 23, 1926
Woe is me. Me thinks I'm turning into a god.
 Vespasian, Roman Emperor, d. 79 AD
Don't let it end like this. Tell them I said something.
 Pancho Villa, Mexican revolutionary, d. 1923
I have offended God and mankind because my work did not reach the quality it should have.
 Leonardo da Vinci, artist, d. 1519
I die hard but am not afraid to go.
 George Washington, US President, d. December 14, 1799
Go away. I'm all right.
 H. G. Wells, novelist, d. 1946
Either that wallpaper goes, or I do.
 Oscar Wilde, writer, d. November 30, 1900
I am ready.
 Woodrow Wilson, US President, d. 1924

Curtain! Fast music! Light! Ready for the last finale! Great! The show looks good, the show looks good!
 Florenz Ziegfeld, showman, d. July 22, 1932